Sunday, December 19, 2010

does anyone want advice if they don't ask?

Advice; what a word. Don't we need a place for the puppy to play? What about the pool,it could fall in. Don't you think we need this don’t you think we need that. Everyone is frustrated with me..I am so confused. Deep breath...what am I doing wrong here? Am I giving advice? Are they asking? Hmmm....do you like advice when you didn't ask? This involves my life too shouldn't I voice my concern? NO because what we are really trying to do is get others to see it our way. If I am concerned then I should do what I feel I need to do to meet that concern that involves me not get others to agree that it is valid. Boy this is going to be a bumpy ride for me!

4 comments:

  1. Hang on, my friend! Bumby rides are the best. :-)

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  2. Thanks sherree...I just realized how tricky blogs can be. Now that I re-read this it is a bit confusing...I will re-write and clarify

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  3. ok, i read it twice and now i followed what you are saying, just needed to go slow on this one, heehee! :) i like what you said - deep breath...

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  4. Huh? Ok I read it twice too! I think it's going to be a bumpy ride too but I love that you are so open to it and to all the "lessons" this puppy will help you learn!

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